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Okay, Let’s Talk About Sex: Kind Of An Introduction
When couples come to counseling, the conversation almost always lands here eventually: “We’re not having sex enough.” “We’re not having...
Sep 95 min read


No, Your Partner Isn’t a Super-Villain (What's Really Going On?)
Sometimes it feels like there are only two types of people in the world: those who understand us… and those who clearly woke up in the...
Aug 133 min read


What Makes Couples Successful in Therapy?
Intro: Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of sitting with couples in all kinds of emotional spaces—hurting, hopeful, angry,...
Jul 294 min read


Listen To Your Partner Like She/He's Not Dumb, Crazy, or Just Mean
Listening with Love When I sit with couples in the therapy room, one of their most transformative moments often starts with a very simple...
Jul 143 min read


Emotional Safety: The Love Language Nobody Talks About
Discover why emotional safety is the foundation of all love languages. Learn how to identify emotional disconnection in your relationship and start building deeper trust, connection, and healing today.
Jun 272 min read


Why Is My Partner So Needy?
Discover why emotional closeness isn't "neediness"—it's a healthy sign of love and connection. Learn how to respond with care and build a stronger relationship.
Jun 112 min read


Why Emotional Connection Matters Most in Love
What Really Holds a Relationship Together? It's not date nights, shared hobbies, or even how well you communicate—though those all help...
May 292 min read


Can We Turn Arguments into Opportunities for Connection?
Yes, All Couples Fight—But Not All Grow From It YES! It's true that all couples fight, but some couples fight more than others, and not...
May 232 min read


What Is Emotional Connection?
That's not a bad stab at a definition, but I think there's more to it than that--something that includes safety, security, and a deep shared
Jul 25, 20242 min read


Love Languages
Introduction There are a number of things I hear consistently from my clients. One of the most common is hearing about my clients’ love...
Jun 26, 20243 min read


Reassurance
Introduction I learn a lot from my clients, and I truly love learning. One thing I’ve learned is that most people don’t actually know...
Jun 26, 20242 min read
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